Category: Friends

Regrets: 3

I was in college and was in a class with a very famous professor.  He was very jolly, very deep, very challenging, and he rode a really cool black bicycle around campus. He and it together were amazing, almost mythical. It had this long banana seat and small wheels and was legendary. 

Our class was meeting in a different building and the professor realized he needed something from his office. Rather than going himself, he asked me to go get it for him – of course because I was so responsible and wouldn’t do anything foolish. 

I walked out of the building and immediately saw the black bike.

in a building and he realized that he needed something from his office.  He asked me to go back and get it for him.  I walked out of the building and saw the bike.  

I knew I had the opportunity of a lifetime. I could walk to his office, or I could ride in style.

Because this is listed as a regret, you probably can guess what I picked.

To this day, I know I should have taken the bike.

Regrets: 1

People like to say they don’t have any regrets in life.  If that is true, that’s great for them.  I have a few and here are some of them:

One of my greatest regrets was when my friends wanted to go skydiving right about the time we were all getting married. It sounded like fun to me and I got Mama’s permission.  However, the cost was going to be like $150.  I had a little money, but I wasn’t spending very much money at the time, knowing that the wedding was coming up soon. Part of me was also just a tightwad as well.

So, I told my friends I was going to have to pull out. I wanted to go, but couldn’t justify the cost.

My best friend in the world who was also getting married at the same time (and admittedly not awesome with money), called me up and asked what price I thought I could pay. I thought he was going to try to talk the facility down to a lower price. I said $100. He said he would work it out and didn’t want me to miss out on it.

The day of the trip, I had an envelope on my bed with around $50 in cash. I still don’t know if he gave it himself or if he got all the other guys to pay a little more. Either way, I felt like the biggest chump in the world.  I had the money to do it, but I didn’t and I forced my friends to pay more.

I learned how horrible it is to feel like that and vowed not to be in that situation again. I’m thankful for my friends for teaching me that lesson, but I completely regret making them do it.

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