I regret that it has taken me so long to be willing to change for my wife. It is the hardest thing I have ever done, but the most rewarding thing. Every time I am faced with the challenge that I am in fact hurting her by the way I act, my first attitude is to protect my personality and defend myself to find a way to appease her but not actually have to change myself.
I agreed to be married to Mama for the rest of my life. Why would I continually not do what I know what will bring happiness to her?
I’ve hurt her in many ways, and most of them needlessly because I refused to learn a lesson and really change.
Choosing someone to marry is a huge commitment, but perhaps the biggest part is being willing to change something about yourself in order to meet their needs.